Archive for the ‘Helpful Hints’ Category

Calla Lilies

Tuesday, February 16th, 2010

As a florist one of my favorite flowers to use is the Calla Lily. When I looked up the meaning of the flower, it simply says “Magnificent beauty”, and  I couldn’t agree more!  I personally love the shape and hardiness of this bloom and often suggest it to brides that want to add dimension to their personal flowers because they come in various different sizes. But a common myth is that it only comes in a few select colors like white, cream, burnt orange, plum, and pink. When in reality your florist can provide this gorgeous flower in so spectacular colors that you should be able to incorporate just the right shade for your wedding. Here are just a few of my favorites!

(All Photos of Calla Lilies courtesy of Potomac Floral)

What to look for in a DJ Company?

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

Music plays an important part in any wedding because
traditionally it is used during both the ceremony and
reception. Most couples that I meet with choose music
that not only reflects them as a couple, but will also
beenjoyed by their guests. More couples choose to go
with a DJ service over a band.  Below I have outlined
what you should look for in a DJ service, and what
questions you will need answered, when interviewing
them for your upcoming wedding.

Personality is important! Make sure you "click" with
the DJ and feel that they will keep the guests dancing.
Do you have the confidence that they will be able to
read the crowd and pick thecorrect music throughout the
evening? That is an important question you will need to
ask yourself before hiring any DJ.

How many songs do they carry and do they have a database
to showyou the sort of music they carry to each event?
Make sure they have a size-able collection with a wide
variety of music for you and your guest to choose from.

What do past bridal couples have to say about the service
theyreceived for their wedding? Make sure you check reviews
on sites like Wedding Wire or chat with other local brides
on sites like "The Knot". If you have a planner, find out
if they have worked with them in the past and what their
feelings are on the service they provided.

Is their equipment professional grade and do they have back
up equipment in case they run into issues during the event?

If needed, are they able to support both the ceremony and
the reception? What will the additional cost be for added
services?

Make they understand that they are playing the roles of
Master of Ceremonies, Sound Technician, and Lighting
Technician.  They must be flexible enough to change when
needed throughout the night.

When asked who I recommend for a DJ service, I
instantly say Thunder Mountain DJ Service, based
in Holland Michigan. I've had the pleasure of working
with this company on multiple events and they're one
of the best in the area. When asked why they're so
passionate about their company, Dave and Deb very simply
said "Being a DJ is a fantastic job! It gives us the
opportunity to go new places and meet many people.
It is always an exciting and rewarding experience being
caught up in the joy and passion that is being expressed,
whether it is a small party, wedding reception or fund
raiser. We love to be part of thefun and memories of
a "special" occasion or event."

Happy Planning!

Spirit Custom Make-up

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

I’ve had the honor of working with the best of the best wedding make-up artistes and I’m a firm believer that we in West Michigan have the best in the Midwest. And today I would love to tell you more about Patti Nahikian who is one of the best I have worked with.  She even did my make-up on my wedding day a year ago.  What’s so special about her is that all her make-up is custom made to fit your skin needs. But today I am not highlighting her wedding packages but her everyday line of cosmetics.

Patricia is a licensed Aesthetician, Professional Makeup Artist and Certified Color Specialist. She owned and operated a full service beauty salon in South Florida for more than 10 years and has been published in several trade magazines and journals. She was also called upon to address groups of her peers and to review many trade publications including Milady’s Standard-Comprehensive Training for Aestheticians, which is used in most cosmetology schools today.

Currently, Patti is the owner of Spirit Custom Cosmetics by Rainbow Shades, a custom natural makeup and image consulting business. And I asked her today to share with us her passion and more about her new line.

Spirit is for the every day woman. It embodies each individual’s inner nature whether that be exciting and edgy or peaceful and tranquil or somewhere in between. Spirit is the last makeup you will ever need because it grows and changes as you grow and changes because it’s you!

Your face is your opportunity for expression. Define your look with here-and-now beauty. Spirit is an experience in real time for building your personal palette, perfectly matched to each memory, each moment, and each mood. Spirit is Perfectly matched to you.

Get the perfect lipstick made just for you in front of you. Our lipsticks are rich in botanicals: vitamin E, oils of jojoba, macadamia nut and grape seed, green tea extract, Shea butter, and aloe.

Create your foundation, bronzers, blushes and shadows of choice, (liquid or mineral powder), matched perfectly to your skin tone, right in front of you.

Mineral powder foundations are made of silky micronized minerals with natural healing properties that beautify and protect the skin. Our Active Powder Additives allow you to customize your foundation with treatments for your specific skin condition. Talc-free, fragrance-free, dye-free and non-comedogenic.

Liquid mineral foundations are infused with rich botanical of Calendula, Linden, Roman Chamomile, German Chamomile, Cornflower and St. John’s Wort, Lady’s Mantle, Horsetail, Pomegranate, Gingko Balboa, and Milk Thistl to nourish and fortify your skin.

Please visit Patti’s website to learn more about her new line of everyday wear and also about her great Wedding Packages!

Vendor LOVE

Wednesday, December 9th, 2009

Over the next few weeks I have decided to highlight all the vendors on my vendor list.  As many know I don’t add people onto my vendor list unless I have either personally worked with them or I met them and they blew me away with their talent.  So with this being said, I have asked the vendors to write a little something about themselves, their business, and of course some helpful hits for our upcoming bridal couples.  My hope in doing this is with the upcoming  planning season approaching us, this will be a great way for newly engaged brides to learn about some GREAT vendors.  I don’t have a set of standard questions for them to answer, I have asked them to write from their heart and let my readers know who they really are!

Happy Planning and I hope you enjoy our first vendor

Allison Bower

I met Allison a little less than a year ago at a photo shoot  at September Brides in Holland Michigan.  From the first moment I met her I have fell in love with  her work.  She is the most high energy person I know and she is great at what she does! Plus she has the sweetest personality and puts her clients at ease from the moment she walks in the room.


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I love makeup and making people feel good about themselves. Everyone has good features that can be highlighted. A lot of my clients come to me and ask what colors look good on them. They are often surprised when they discover a different color that looks great on them. I find it exciting when I show them how they can enhance their features by simple techniques and colors. Makeup is so personal and ranges from natural looking to glamorous. It is supposed to be fun!

For bridal makeup, most of my brides tend to go with more natural or romantic colors. Last summer, I used a lot of taupes, champaynes, and lavenders on the eyes. Soft pinks and plums were popular for lips. I tend to encourage false lashes, because they make your eyes “pop” in photographs.

I believe in using the best products that I know very well. Most of my makeup cases have these products: Laura Mercier, Artistry, Chanel, Nars, Smashbox, Merle Norman and MAC. I have my favorites!

Favorite Eye Liner: Merle Norman Soft Touch pencils (waterproof, too)
Favorite Lipstick: MAC
Mascara: Chanel and Artistry
Eye Shadow: Laura Mercier and MAC
Foundation/Powder: Laura Mercier
Blush: MAC
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Respect

Sunday, July 26th, 2009

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Find out what it means to me

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Take care of TCP

-Aretha Franklin

Why would I put this chorus line in a blog posting?  Well I think respect is a very important topic when it comes to planning a wedding.  Not only should the couple and their wishes be respected, but everyone that is involved also needs to be respected.  Sometimes we get so busy in the planning that we forget people’s feelings and make it all about ourselves.  I know that I am guilty of this at times, so I make myself step back and take stock and then make sure that I am doing what is best for all involved.  I also try to make sure that my couples respect their vendors and that their vendors respect them.  I have been very lucky that I have had the pleasure to only work with great couples and great vendors that show the utmost respect for each other.  They truly understand that in the end we all need to work together to make a memorable wedding that everyone can be proud of.  But in life in general, I’m a true believer that every person that you meet deserves respect and if we all did this, we would live in an even more amazing world!

Love those invites!

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Invitations are one of my favorite parts of a wedding.  I get so excited when I walk out to my mailbox and see that “special” envelope lying among my mail just saying “Hurry up and open me!” This single envelope begins to tell the story of a very special day that is coming up.  You can get a feeling of the style and atmosphere by just looking at it. But also it tells you all the details such as where I’m going and what time; what’s for dinner; where I can stay; and if children are welcomed. So I always stress to my couples to let that invite tell that story and truly have it reflect them as a couple.

Here are some pointers to make your invite one that has your guests talking

Be Bold! Use the darker color of your wedding color scheme for your backer, tri-fold, or whatever you choose for you main design

Make it personal! Use a special saying or picture on the actual invite itself

Spread it!  Use the same designs on all your wedding stationary needs such as escort cards, menu cards, programs, and thank you notes

Make it readable! Don’t pick a font that is not easily read by all

Give the details! Make this a tool for communication.  Call out all information that your guest might be needing and also all the information you need from them

Add that postage! Make sure you take the invite once it has been completely assembled and have it weighed at the Post Office

Have FUN! Invites are just one aspect of the wedding that can be very enjoyable.  Make it a group project with family and friends to assemble with great food and drink!

And find a professional! I highly believe that using an actual designer verses using a website is always the best choice.  The quality and personal attention that you will receive is well worth taking the time out of a busy schedule to sit down with an actual person. I always send my clients to one certain designer, Sondra of Sondra’s Ink.  She is amazing to work with and her prices are so reasonable.  Plus for an extra charge she will assemble and mail them for you!  Her designs are always fresh and are way beyond what her clients thought they would receive.

All photos courtesy of Sondra’s Ink and Taylor Gray Photography

Children in today’s weddings

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

Justin and girls

Children, oh how we love them!  And in today’s weddings they are making a come back appearance…  There was a time where couples were forgoing children all too together in their weddings but this is not the case anymore.  But when there are children, there is prep work that must be considered to help make your day run smooth…  Here are a few helpful hints:

v     Remember they are children so keeping them on a time schedule is important.  They get antsy when they’re forced to stand around and wait.

v     Give them something to do…  Kids love craft project so I usually bring one with me that they play with that does not involved getting their outfit soiled.

v     A change of clothes for the children is always a good idea especially if you are doing pictures before the wedding.  It’s easy to slip them out of their wedding outfit into some play clothes for a while before redressing them.  This also allows them time to burn off some that excitement energy.

v     When bringing in food for the children go more of the healthy route and skip the sugar.  And always have clear fruit juices verses a color liquid.  Red fruit punch does not come out with a Tide Stick on a cute flower girl dress.

v     Consider hiring a sitter to help out through out the day especially if the parents are also in the wedding. This frees up them and your family to enjoy the day and not stress over who has the children.  Remember to introduce them before the wedding though.

v     Please have them come to rehearsal…  It preps them for what it is going to be like the day of the wedding.  Plus it gives us time to get to know the children and become buddies with them.

v     Have a Children’s table at the reception that has coloring books, Lego’s, arts and crafts, and activity sheets to keep the children busy through out the night.

v     And the most important thing, remember they are children and as much as we want them to be perfect that day, it might not happen.  Children tend to freeze up and become scared when they see all those people.  Sometimes they run right down the aisle, and sometimes they wail at the back of the church.  But no matter what, they make the day just a little more precious because they are part of it…

Photo courtesy of Riverside Photography